On the November 1 broadcast of SBS Plus's "The Love Master 2," HA:TFELT discussed her personal life.
"I came to appear on 'The Love Master 2' because to Shindong," HA:TFELT said on the show. When I had my fortune read, it always predicted that I would marry when I became 40. I was wondering if I could get married while discussing with Shindong."
"I've only dated celebs till now," the singer admitted candidly. I've been in maybe ten relationships." "I despise it when my guy lies," she said. Because there is a three-strike rule, I do my best to give everyone three opportunities." "Whenever I'm in a relationship, I think about marriage," she continued. "I'm the sort of person that thinks that far ahead." “You look like the sort to date maturely and sincerely,” Hong Hyun Hee said.
"I also attempt to reflect my honest sentiments in the songs I compose," HA:TFELT said of her feelings regarding the truth. "There was a person who lied every time he opened his lips," she said, referring to her song "Truth." I was in the passenger seat, and there was a piece of paper in front of me. It was an apartment parking pass. It wasn't my house, nor was it his, yet he came in at 5 a.m. He couldn't think of an excuse. I showed it to him, and his face became pale.”
HA:TFELT went into further detail about her feelings about marriage. "My views on it really go back and forth," she added. I want to get married if it will make me happier, but I don't want to do it if it would make me miserable. My mother divorced and remarried and is now happily married, but I know how tough it is to remarry after a divorce, so I don't want to be divorced. If I marry, I want to do it when there's less than a 0.1 percent risk of divorce, but things don't always go as planned."
"I had all of my relationships with males in their 20s," she admitted. I used to think I was meeting someone my age when I was younger, but now that I'm 33 (according to Korean standards), I feel like I'm aging as the men become younger. On occasion, the men I encounter are four to five years my junior." Because she is so beautifully dressed, the fortune teller believes she has men who wish to rely on her.
HA:TFELT also discussed her father's conviction for fraud, which occurred just as she was ready to embark on a new chapter by quitting JYP Entertainment after ten years. “My parents split when I was little, so I didn't see my father for a long time,” she revealed. "I despised my father." "There were a lot of occurrences," HA:TFELT said, "but I started contacting and meeting him approximately three to four years before he was convicted." There were a variety of reasons for this, but one of them was that I began to believe I couldn't trust men and pushed them away because I didn't trust my father, so I attempted to repair my connection with him."
“I had been damaged by him, but I wanted to try to understand him as a person and as a father,” the artist stated. I didn't contact him very often, but I did. He also knelt down and apologized to me. 'I'm really sorry for inflicting such a large hurt on you,' he apologized. I'm not sure whether I'd say he used me, but when that episode blew out, I discovered that he utilized the fact that he's my father to create a number of problems. "At that point, all of my faith in humanity was shattered."
"I guess that's why it became hard for me to trust anybody, especially males," HA:TFELT said. My mother remarried around seven years ago, and her new spouse is a wonderful person. My mother is alive while receiving all of the affection she had previously been unable to receive. I try to have a positive attitude by thinking to myself, "Won't I be able to meet a good man like him as well?"
Finally, HA:TFELT said that she receives therapy from her employer. The doctor encouraged her to write a book, which she did and published last year. "Don't get too depressed," the fortune teller said, "and I hope you find someone who loves you for who you are."
